yes, and?
- Daniella Rojas
- Apr 14
- 4 min read
Updated: May 7
Rewinding back to 2024, Ariana Grande releases her lead single of Eternal Sunshine, “Yes, and?” An upbeat track radiating positivity and self-confidence, not letting judgment and disgrace from others get in your way. The contagious beat emits immaculate vibes that get you up to dance, releasing any negative energy that held you over. For years, you hid behind your shadow, fearing self-doubt, scandal, and judgment. Yet, with this empowering track, it inspires a transformative shift—an optimistic statement of self-acceptance and a determined commitment to authenticity. Now is the time to step into the light and boldly share your thoughts, celebrating the freedom that comes with self-empowerment.
“In case you haven't noticed. Well, everybody's tired, and healin' from somebody or somethin' we don't see just right.” The challenge of persistent judgment is that, often, one is struggling with what remains unseen by others. Those who cast their opinions may be oblivious to the profound impact their words can have, failing to understand the emotional turbulence that lies beneath the surface. Such insensitivity can be deeply damaging, especially when they do not recognize the weight of the battles that are silently fought each day.
“Boy, come on, put your lipstick on (No one can tell you nothin'). Come on and walk this way through the fire (Don't care what's on their mind).” This is a reference to gender norms, but at the end of the day, who cares? You can wear whatever you want without worrying about others’ opinions. The fire comes from the critics; sometimes we are tempted not to do things differently because we fear what society thinks and the comments we might receive. So, instead of walking in dread, embrace what you do despite what others think or say. They may actually be envious of your bravery and wish they had the courage to take similar steps. “And if you find yourself in a dark situation, just turn on your light and be like.” Whenever dark times hit, we often pretend everything is fine. We become experts at acting as if nothing is wrong. That's why, in times like these, having an attitude is best.
"Yes, and? Say that shit with your chest, and be your own fuckin' best friend. Say that shit with your chest, keep moving like, what's next? Yes, and?” Embracing a mindset of indifference can be transformative—it’s crucial for personal growth. Aspire to evolve into the best version of yourself, as that is the most rewarding journey you can embark on. Invest your life with a sense of romance, allowing yourself to savor every moment to the fullest, shaping your experiences in a way that resonates with your desires. It’s equally important to detach from toxic environments and to distance yourself from people who do not contribute positively to your life. Develop a profound friendship with yourself and embrace your independence, reveling in the strength that comes from being your own greatest partner.
“Now, I'm so done with caring; what you think, no, I won't hide. Underneath your own projections or change my most authentic life.” It may refer to your physical appearance, a reflection of how you've changed over time. There might have been a period when you suppressed your insecurities beneath layers of treatments, clothing, or makeup. However, in this current chapter of your life, you have chosen to step into the light, no longer hiding away from the aspects of yourself that once filled you with fear. Instead, you embrace your true self profoundly, celebrating the uniqueness that once held you back.
“My tongue is sacred; I speak upon what I like. Protected, sexy, discerning with my time (My time). Your energy is yours and mine is mine (It's mine, it's mine). What's mine is mine.” Praying, manifesting, and using affirmations are sacred practices. The things you say can sometimes come true. Your energy is precious, and you should protect it at all costs, not allowing negativity to affect you. Your time is valuable, and you’d rather not waste it on things that are unnecessary. What is meant for you will always come into your life, no matter what others do or think. No outside influence can take away its value or importance, so your unique path will stay strong and satisfying. “My face is sitting, I don't need no disguise (I don't need no disguise). Don't comment on my body, do not reply. Your business is yours and mine is mine. Why do you care so much whose **** I ride? Why?” Receiving harsh comments about your body can be incredibly draining. However, with this new mindset you've adopted, you stand up for yourself and tell those who comment to stop, as you will no longer tolerate such behavior. People need to learn to mind their own business. Why do we live in a society where everyone feels the need to care about what others do? Particularly when it comes to dating, why should you have to explain your situation to anyone? It’s nobody’s business, so why do they care so much?
Grande, Ariana. "yes, and?" eternal sunshine. Republic Records, 2024. Apple Music, https://music.apple.com/us/album/yes-and/1725877944?i=1725878240
