the boy is mine
- Daniella Rojas
- Apr 7
- 3 min read
We’re entering a world of daydreaming and wild fantasies, a place where the person you want to be with would ignite a scandal so profound that it would forever haunt a whole community. “The boy is mine” serves as the eighth track of Eternal Sunshine, standing as a sister to “true story.” This captivating song unveils a fictional romance that invites us to unveil our own narratives, allowing our imaginations to run free as we explore the elaborate design of love and fascination it proposes.
“How can it be? You and me. Might be meant to be; can't unsee it, but I don't wanna cause no scene. I'm usually so unproblematic, so independent. Tell me why, 'cause the boy is mine, mine.” The swirling question resonates within you: Is this connection meant to be, or is it merely a figment of your fantasy? Although these sensations may feel right, you don't want to cause a scandal that could ruin your reputation. “Somethin' about him is made for somebody like me. Baby, come over, come over (over), and God knows I'm tryin', but there's just no use in denying.” You have an image of yourself as being a sweet, nice, independent girl, but this person has made you fall head over heels for them. You’re willing to throw everything away just for them. It seems that this person was destined to be with you; the idea of them just feels so right. You do try your best not to think of them the way you are, but there's no point in denying the feelings since they’ll only intensify even more.
“The boy is mine, I can't wait to try him. Le-let's get intertwined. The stars, they aligned. The boy is mine, watch me take my time. I can't believe my mind. The boy is divine, boy is mine.” Intense emotions arise even more. You find yourself dreaming about and longing for this person, wanting to know every inch of their body. The stars aligning feels like a constant reminder that it's meant for you to be with this person, and the feelings you have are not just your delusion. You want to take your time admiring them, and you can hardly believe it might actually happen. This person is so divine; it's no wonder you can't get them off your mind.
“Please know this ain't what I planned for. Probably wouldn't bet a dime or my life on. There's gotta be a reason why, my girls, they always come through in a sticky situation. Say, "It's fine" (it's fine), happens all the time.” Things have gone your way, and now you're dating the person you once fantasized about, but you’re aware of the consequences. You tried to keep quiet, but the news eventually spread. You wouldn’t have bet a cent on this happening; you were even careful to avoid it, but the universe had other plans for you. Fortunately, you’re not entirely alone in this; you have your friends to support you during these difficult times.
“And I know it's simply meant to be. And I, I take full accountability for all these years, promise you I'm not usually like this, shit, it's like news to me, to me. But I can't ignore my heart, boy (the boy is mine).” Despite the spiraling scandal that has enveloped your life, it seems fate has aligned in your favor. You find yourself by the side of the person you desire, unbothered by the judgments of others. Typically, you steer clear of controversy, preferring a life of quiet peace. Yet, you cannot ignore the deep, unmistakable feelings that stir within your heart, compelling you to embrace this passionate connection, no matter the noise around you.
Grande, Ariana. "the boy is mine," eternal sunshine. Republic Records, 2024. Apple Music, https://music.apple.com/us/album/the-boy-is-mine/1725877944?i=1725878239
