ordinary things (feat. Nonna)
- Daniella Rojas
- Apr 28
- 3 min read
Updated: May 7
"We could go pop all the champagne in California, we could have omakase in Tokyo if you wanna
Hypothetically, we (we) could do (do), anything that we'd like
We could hit up all the slopes in matching snowsuits
We could hang out at the Louvre all night if you want to
We could spend every dime, but I don't want (want) anything ('thing)
But more time"
No matter the various experiences you could share with your partner, nothing compares to the simple desire for more time spent in their presence. The excitement of visiting new places, getting gifts, or gaining money is not as important as the special moments you share together. Every day on this planet is a gift, and you understand the momentary quality of time. You refuse to take it for granted, cherishing each laugh, conversation, and quiet moment as irreplaceable gems in your journey together. It’s not about where you go or what you have, but the depth of connection you gain and the memories you create.
“No matter what we do, there's never gonna be an ordinary thing, no ordinary things with you. It's funny, but it's true. There's never gonna be an ordinary thing, as long as I'm with you.” The person you share your life with is incredibly unique and extraordinary, infusing every moment with a sense of wonder and excitement that exceeds the ordinary. It's almost funny to think about, but it's undeniably true: you've discovered a deep sense of fulfillment in this relationship that feels almost supernatural. Every day spent together is a new adventure, marked by unique experiences that leave a lasting impression on your heart. Whether it's through shared laughter, meaningful conversations, or spontaneous outings, the connection you both cultivate makes even the simplest moments feel extraordinary and memorable.
"You hit just like the first sip of wine after a long day; you hit like my biggest fan when I hear what the critiques say; you hit just like a green light when I'm stuck runnin' real late, I don't need no diamonds, just your time." This person integrates seamlessly into your life, illustrating that profound sense of comfort and relief you experience after a challenging day. They stand by your side, determined in their support. It becomes increasingly evident that no material possession, not even the most dazzling diamond, compares to the value of someone who dedicates their time and encouragement to your well-being. Their presence is a treasure far beyond any tangible assets, reminding you of what truly matters in the art of existence.
"Ordinary thing, ordinary things with you
Ordinary thing, as long as I'm with you"
"And when he'd come home and I'd see him, when he first gets off that train
It was like God almighty arrived; it was like seein' daylight. I mean, I could've packed up and left a million times
You know? It's not that we never fought; you can overcome that, you know? It-it's very easy
And as I told her, never go to bed without kissin' goodnight, that's the worst thing to do, don't ever, ever do that
And if you can't, and if you don't feel comfortable doing it
You're in the wrong place, get out."
Several weeks ago, when I embarked on the journey of analyzing the Eternal Sunshine album, I began with the track titled "intro (end of the world)." In the initial piece, I mentioned that answers to some profound questions from the first track would be revealed as the series progressed and answered by the end. Nonna’s heartfelt message stands out because it effectively shows how to recognize when someone is truly meant to be in your life. Her words can be seen as guidance for Ariana and, by extension, for listeners too, revealing how to sense if you have genuinely found 'the one.' The message is touching: if you find yourself unable to share a goodnight kiss after a disagreement, it could reveal that you’re not with the right partner. This insight highlights the importance of being with someone who values and respects you, suggesting that investing time in a relationship lacking mutual appreciation can lead to heartache. Nonna’s wisdom serves as a reminder to honor ourselves and seek out connections that bring genuine fulfillment.
Grande, Ariana and Nonna. "ordinary things" eternal sunshine. Republic Records, 2024. Apple Music, https://music.apple.com/us/album/ordinary-things-feat-nonna/1725877944?i=1725878248
